livingitup

Money might be tight, but life doesn’t have to be dull.  Make the most of it.  Here are some simple, basically free activities that really make you feel connected.

1.  Have a music-listening event.  Take turns listening to each other’s music collections.  Is this song really great?  Sing along.  Share your song related stories.  Make playlists for different events or people you know. 

2.  Visit a bookstore.  Chain bookstores are quite nice, with their big comfy chairs, coffee shops, and endless supply of books, but don’t overlook used bookstores.  Very fun, some of the items you find might amaze you, and sometimes you get really great deals.  Get into conversations with the staff, too.  Some of my favorite items I received for free because a worker/owner couldn’t imagine another person (that person being me) being in the world without the”must-know” item. 

3.  Have a game night or day.  Visit a friend’s place or invite a small crowd.  Bring a dish to share and a game.  Enjoy a great evening.  Or take over a local coffee shop for an hour or two during a slow afternoon.  (For larger groups, check ahead first and get the manager’s blessing.)

4.  Do something scary!  That’s right.  Nothing says, “Y’all are the best people ever!” like jumping off a cliff together or going on a hunt for paranormal activity (even if you don’t believe in it).  Skydive, hang glide, take a midnight cemetery tour or a ghost walk, try that scary looking diner you passed that one time when you were lost.

5.  Head outdoors.  Set up a hike or a game of volleyball at a local park.  Bike, run in a marathon together, play horseshoes, grill out.  

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